"hands feel like hands in the middle of the dark
but his voice don’t sound like yours
no matter how many lights I turn off"

Alysia Harris, Doing It Wrong 
Why am I on blast for speaking my opinion. I am not racist; most of my friends are African American. Believe me that, not supporting either side Just saying they were both in the wrong, & that she gave her what she wanted; a reaction.



Listen closely.

  1. A few of us (black people) are in on a little secret: When someone says “I have black friends,” they’re tokenizing black people as a means to an end. In other words, that sends red flags up in our head to let us know that person is a racist.
  2. I already thought you were racist and then you used one of the Racist’s Favorite Slogans. I must say I feel affirmed.
  3. Why did I already think you were racist? Stop. You’re already thinking of how you’re not and how it’s ridiculous that I think that. Stop. Now listen. I think you’re racist (besides the aforementioned two points) because you chose to chastise the reaction of the person who had just been called a NIGGER—the worst thing you can be called—instead of the person who called someone a NIGGER—the worst thing you can call someone. You can say “they were both in the wrong” until you’re blue in the face but the fact of the matter is YOU CALLED OUT ONE (OPPRESSED) PERSON AND LEFT THE OTHER (AN OPPRESSOR) PRETTY MUCH SCOT-FREE. That may not be what you meant, but guess what? Racism is not about intent.
  4. Fuck your intent.
  5. As for me being the anon, is it so hard for your little pea-brain to consider that maybe you’re getting multiples of the same message…because MULTIPLE PEOPLE FEEL THAT WAY? You’re trying so hard to defend yourself while MULTIPLE PEOPLE SAY THE SAME THING TO YOU. At a certain point, you have to accept that the PROBLEM IS YOU and CORRECT YOUR-GODDAMN-SELF. 
  6. As for your so-called “African American friends” whom you so graciously brought up, if you really think proximity to them means you’re not racist…that makes you the worst kind of racist. The kind that tries to defend herself without listening and just uses those “African American friends” as shields against accusations of her blatant racism. 
  7. In conclusion, it is not your job to tell a black person who has just been racially attacked and triggered ANYTHING. I know you think your “African American friends” are pets and they afford you the right to butt in, but DON’T BUTT IN. Your opinion is NOTHING. You know NOTHING and you have NO OPINION on how ANY BLACK PERSON who has just been called a NIGGER should react. NONE WHATSOEVER. You zip your lip and you listen and you learn. 

Got it?


DRAG HA!!!!!




Destroy the idea that in gay couples one has to be masculine and one has to be feminine to imitate heterosexuality


but also destroy the idea that queer couples who are constructed like this are just trying to imitate heterosexuality

(via konartist)